Dating advice for Women: How to look alluring, but not vulgar or trashy? by Patty Contenta.
Patty is the founder and author of Sensuality Secrets, http://sensualitysecrets.com/ a book and DVD set that helps divorced women over 40 who are struggling with their body image feel sexy, feminine, confident, and attract quality male attention without looking cheap or trashy. Patty has become a sought after speaker and radio guest in North America. dating conversation tips Today's question is I love the idea of men thinking of me as sensual or even seductive but it worries me that IF they see me as sexual that they're going to think all I'm into is sex, and that's not the case. How can I present myself to men in a way that's alluring but not look vulgar or trashy? dating conversation tips This fear of looking sexual or trashy is such a major concern for women. We've been raised to be good girls and not invite attention. So we're struggling with our old fashion values while trying to create new beliefs. My body language and flirting tips are all about being sensual and classy. As a former competitive ballroom dancer, I always needed to be alluring and enticing not vulgar. Sexuality does have a place...in the bedroom, behind closed doors. Sensuality is for the world to see! It's an attitude that exudes a confidence while creating attention. So how do you do this? Well one of my techniques requires you to touch yourself. A woman that is comfortable with touching herself is a woman that is able to express her satisfaction with her body, the pleasure she receives and is willing to give to her body! The point is to achieve a soft, alluring feel to your energy that is not confrontational or masculine. To be a bright beacon for many men to notice you...then you can be in a position to choose who is right for you. If the attention gets too much (it may happen), you always have the power to say "no" if you don't like his approach. These tips are about showing up open and approachable...and you can decide the intensity your willing to explore with. Watch the specific areas I mention to stay away from in order to have a sensual and not sexual look. For one of her dating tips please check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFL6YBIAALA |
